From Trust Agents by Chris Brogan and Julien Smith
Meetups are popular social gatherings usually organized around a particular business topic or hobby or other special interest. There’s a meetup.com site where you can learn if there are any events in your area (though many events happen without being facilitated through that site).
Here’s how you can do business at meetups
1. You can connect your online presence with face-to-face humans.
2. Before an event, research for information about who will be there.
3. Check Flickr.com for photos of attendees, so you can recognize them when you see them.
4. Check Twitter for mention of organizations of attendees.
5. At the event, find the people you most want to meet — earlier, rather than later.
6. It’s not about how many business cards you hand out, but how many useful ones you collect.
7. Be conversational and polite and do not monopolize any one person’s time.
8. After the event, send brief notes to people whom you want to build a relationship.
Don’t forget that you, too, can start a meetup group to gather together like-minded individuals.
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I don’t have any experience in meeting up especially in business but this may help me later. Well, anyway thanks for the tips ahead.
Hi Shari,
This are great tips! Sometimes because of the fact that we can do business online we forget one of the most great techniques in business and it is the Face-to-Face meet ups. Thanks for posting this.
Thank you Shari for sharing these tips with us. It truly is a must to maximize business at these face to face meetings. Also, it really is important to plan ahead and be prepared before attending these meetups.
Have your calling cards ready as surely they will have theirs too.
Thanks for the lists! These are really important in expanding and maximizing our business. We have to grab the opportunity in every business dealings and meetings we have.
Something I really like to do when I am at ecommerce or tech meetups is use my phone to contact people who I want to speak to via twitter and tell them I am there and going to catch up with them at some point. Its a great ice breaker and lets people know you are really interested in talking to them
Great post, good tips! I completely agree with you, preparation is key….do your home work, research basic details about the people you are meeting up with before hand.
Hi Shari,
Great post! Wow this is a big help to me. I’m not a person type and I’m not good in dealing people. Thanks for the tips.
Good luck with those meetups, Norma, but I wonder why you feel you are not a “people person”
Excellent article on my favorite way to build this business, shoulder to shoulder, the personal touch! Let me know if any of them work especially well for you.
Regards,
forex
Like you said, the key is do some research so you will know who you want to meet and how to go about in promoting yourself or your business.
These are some great tips about Meetup. On time I did consider using the format to promote an event. I see by your post it is a greater tool than I thought it was.
A life Without goals, aspirations, and dreams can make one feel lost in life. It is statistically proven that people who are actively working to achieve an objective, fulfill a purpose, dream, or goal they have, are generally much more happy!
I have been in a senior management position for several years before I retired. Your are words of wisdom, you should plan for your meetup in advance. That way you will waste no time target the people you want to meet.
I haven’t been into some meet ups and I think the idea is really looks helpful with this we can know how successful the meet up will be since you are making some forecasting before the day of the event. Let me know if any of them work especially well for you. I haven’t been to a business meeting in years.
I normally go to local WordPress meetups. My big piece of advice is come with questions. How can anyone learn anything. Most of the meetups that are social media, or tech involve learning: lectures, Q&A’s, etc.
The engaging is great, but that is only a part of it.
Great point, Nile. The more “homework” we do, i.e., the more we participate actively in any situation, the more we will get out of it.
I haven’t been into some meet ups and I think the idea is really looks helpful with this we can know how successful the meet up will be since you are making some forecasting before the day of the event.
Excellent article on my favorite way to build this business, shoulder to shoulder, the personal touch! Let me know if any of them work especially well for you.
What works especially well for me is going to a function looking to BUY, not to sell.
Shari,
I haven’t been to a business meeting in years. I haven’t thought of starting my own meetups either.
Anyway, I find your tips really helpful, especially going to Flickr.
Jaden
Jaden, the common wisdom seems to be that face to face meetings WHERE you can get upclose and personal with online acquaintances is something to be planned for and taken advantage of when possible.
Great post and very nice and useful tips. And the most important in my opinion is to stay calm and show your qualities. Thanks for sharing, keep up good work.
Staying calm, eh? Seems to me that business types need to go to enough meetups so that they are not stressed out meeting new people.
Hi Shari,
I always find it hard to interact with other people, Thanks for the tip now I can give it a shot..
Cheers,
Maximizing business is never easy and businessmen already know about it…This is helpful though…
I find attitude and enthusiasm is key when it comes to meetups, people always respond well to the right attitude and being enthusiastic about what you are talking about.
Yes, Matt, and being especially . . . and genuinely . . . enthusiastic about meeting them and finding out what they do.
The activity meetup is great! I could meet potential customers and get many new and useful information, that is wonderful. Also thank you for your tips, and help me a lot to make use of each chance well.
Sophia, good luck with the tips. Let me know if any of them work especially well for you.
Well I hope the 8 ways you have here are very helpful…Thanks for sharing it to us then…
Please do let me know, Chessa, if any of them do in fact work for you. You could write another comment describing the experience.
To Start a new business, business owner always need a good understanding with the business nature as well as the customers/clients. You cannot run a business long time when you dont know all aspects of it.
Awesome tips! I sometimes wondered why meeting face to face is so important, but now I know.
It’s about the connection and the rapport! When you have both, it’s easy to conduct business when you can trust the other party!
I think maximizing business at the right time is a great strategy. It is not very easy at the same time.
Great tips, one thing I would also advocate is connecting via twitter where possible. Rather than a business card as such I just have a small card with my twitter name on that I hand to people I want to stay in touch with. Its a risk if you are in a meetup where peope are not really tech orientated but as thats my field its working for me quite well.
Hey Shari,
Excellent article on my favorite way to build this business, shoulder to shoulder, the personal touch!
There is no better way to build a relationship then face to face contact, sometimes online we lose sight of this “old school” element as we build our businesses via emails, blogs, and webinars.
You have given us some awesome tips on how to prepare for a business “meetup.” I’m going to use your tip #3 in the near future!
Thanks for sharing Shari,
Kevin
Kevin, if I didn’t write this on that article, then the best advice for Face2Face networking is to approach each new person looking for what you can BUY, not what you are trying to sell. The entire dynamic changes, and people will want to know what you do.
These are really helpful tips! It’s great of you to share this post here.. Now this would be like, making sure you’re well equip before entering a fight..
good analogy, Sandra. My best advice for “equipping” oneself is given above to Kevin, i.e. for Face2Face networking is to approach each new person looking for what you can BUY, not what you are trying to sell. The entire dynamic changes, and people will want to know what you do.
Meet ups can be a great place to market yourself. It can even help you meet up with new or potential customers.Here you are at an advantage because you are there yourself and hence convincing someone is easier this way.
Hi Shari,
Great reminder list to review prior to meetups!
My daughter facilitates what she calls “circles.”
Circles can be on any topic that the group decides.
People join the circle because they want to connect with others on that topic.
I would like to learn more about how her circles are
accomplishing goals. It might be like masterminding and I would like to learn the difference!
All the best, Linda
When you implement these principles in your business, you’re going to see an influx of referrals coming your way.. Great source of help for the newbies like me..
oh i totally agree, socializing/connecting to people will surely helps maximize your business.
Wow Shari you share some great tips here about meetups. I am going to book mark this site to come back to and thanks for your insight. Often without planning meetups or other live events can be a bit disappointing!
Nice post!Socializing will lead to better business relationships and more business down the road.
I try and attend all the local business social meetups, breakfasts and coffee mornings that I can. Even though my dating review site isn’t a b2b service I’ve landed lots of web design and SEO jobs through them.
The only downside is, all the buffets and breakfasts add inches to the old waistline
Useful and great sharing of tips..If you had connecting to a lot of people it will build a nice relationship..
We all want to avoid this, but, in life, rejection is inevitable. Even uber hot celebrities like Halle Berry and Angelina Jolie get dumped. There’s just no way around it.
There are two things you need to set when starting a business like firstof all, Set your target audience and second be conversation and polite with your audience. Although having a short audience but touch with them lifetime is more important rather than targeting un limited audience.
Connecting face to face with people you may have been friendly with online can certainly cement a relationship. Socializing will lead to better business relationships and more business down the road.
Shari,
Timely information, glad I found it. In the process of creating a Meetup Mastermind group. Never done one before, so jumping in at the deep end!
Thanks,
RICK
“It’s not about how many business cards you hand out, but how many useful ones you collect.” – so true…Thanks for sharing the tips!
Best,
Michael
Yes. I agree with all of your points .Especially ”
Check Flickr.com for photos of attendees, so you can recognize them when you see them.”
and
“After the event, send brief notes to people whom you want to build a relationship”
will helps for the pre and post preparation meetup
Very nice and useful tips. And the most important in my opinion is to stay calm and show your qualities. Be self-confident.
Well I do realise that these types of meet ups are important from a business point of view but sometimes what comes out from these meetings are lots of networking on the spot, but little follow up. Also sometimes people are not really interested in what you do per se, they talk only because they have to, you know what I mean? say Hi hello and then drop off the surface of earth.
Maximizing business at a right time and place is very important. It is not very easy at the same time. Your ways to maximize business at a meetup are very essential.
Shari,
this is needed information that I have never herd of as a meetup?
This is a standard in Boston. We have these meeting with different groups. I just never needed to attend one. I usually will met people on a daily bases by just traveling downtown and in our local areas.
It doesn’t hurt being withing our churches with all the weekly groups and gatherings.
This is something I will complete my due diligence in creating one that will help more people just looking for having a side business.
Shari, your a true visionary in our industry and one I will be following. Thank you for sharing and caring. Looking forward to your next amazing post.
totally agree with you.. especially about flickr and twitter.. it’s easy to spy someone these days..